please i know i shouldnt do drugs and i should leave him i just dont know how without him trying to ruin my life more then he already has
I asked him if he even loves me & he said he doesn't think so & that his head is all over the place, but gave me the whole I want us to still be close & be friends & I want to be there for you still
This nay sound weird to you, but here's what I think: I think that you are afraid of letting him go because you are looking for a way out of your destructive habbit. Deep inside you know that he will do you a big favor if he tells your family about your problem, becuase no matter how mad they'll be, they'll also do everything to help you and get you off drugs. And this is what you really want. I know it's scary, but you have to let him escort go. And you have to tell you family about your problem. You're only 28. Your whole life is ahead of you and you can start over and wipe away your past today. Now. Isn't the alternative scarier? Let the universe take you to the healing place, where it's trying to take you. You are not alone. Take the first right step and everything will be alright. This is what I think and I'm praying for you to do the right thing for yourself.
Hi, I've been living with my boyfriend for a good 2 years. I'm 24 & he's coming up to 30. Everything was going well, then we argued for a while over stupid things. Recently he has just turned on me, he said he is really unhappy & doesn't see our relationship going anywhere. He did the whole ‘ I love you but I'm not in love with you' there was me trying to fight it and not accept that he said that, I thought of ways to try make it work, but he said I don't want to try make it work anymore. He seems completely done. I gave him space for a while but he didn't change his mind. I'm now in the process of moving out... will he regret it or change his mind? He's adamant he won't but he has done this in the past, before we lived together. He wasn't sure if he was ready to commit so he dumped me a few times but remained friends then that turned back into a relationship. I'm trying to grieve for my relationship with him but also my 5yr olds relationship with him. Will he feel sad & lonely going back to an empty house? Is he having a breakdown? As he's turning to 30. Thank you x
He's not ur typical man who goes out loads, he's never had a one night stand and I was the 5th girl he's ever been with sexually
There's always a chance things will change, and he may feel different in as soon as tomorrow, but you can't depend on that. I know it's hard, but for a real chance you have to let him go. But truly and deeply, without hoping that he comes back and without waiting for him. Now's the time to focus on yourself and see why this has happened in the first place. I am absolutely sure though, that everything happens for the best.
I know it's just so hard, he said he's trying to move on from us already. It's not even been a week, this has only just really hit me & it's going to take a while for me to process